Marriage Is: Opposites Attracting (and Annoying) While praying together recently, Dave said, "Sometimes, God, it seems like you intended Heather and I to be together because of how different we are, and it's a good thing even when it's frustrating." I'm happy with anything, and Dave is picky about everything. I can make a decision on a dime, but Dave needs a week's notice before he can make a decision. I crave the stimulation of people, but Dave is perfectly content without it. I am Dave's excitement and motivation. Dave is my prudence and wisdom. I thrust people into Dave's life and he diminishes my need for their affirmation. It usually works out well, even though our opposing opposites sometimes manifest in ugly nagging and feet-dragging, but all said and done, together we get It done and do It right. A Lot of Kissing I have a dim memory from when I was twelve of walking into our yellow kitchen while my mother was at the stove. My father wa...